Imagine with me. Just for moment. Take everyone you know and subtract them from your mind. Every single person! If you are a parent subtract your kids as well. It’s just you in this story right now. Now that it is just you in your mind answer these questions. What are your goals? What are your ambitions? What would you love to do first?
Obviously, you wouldn’t want to delete everyone from your life. But, its okay to reach our own goals and potential as a parent, sister, friend, co-worker, etc. This is not selfish. We only get one shot at this life and we have to remember to include ourselves. People will love your energy better and love the more vibrant you when you choose you as well.
If you do not know where to start and are unsure anymore of your goals then make a yearly bucket list. For example, maybe you have always wanted to zip line ,ride a horse bare back, or learn to crochet. Make a list of at least 10- 12 things that are adventurous, new for you, and vary in price and get to it! Next year throw that one out and start a new one with fresh ideas.